Safety & Dating Tips

At Fields of Peers, your safety and comfort are our top priority. Dating should be exciting and hopeful — never stressful or unsafe. Here are some simple tips to help you stay safe while meeting people who share your dream of becoming parents.

  1. Take your time getting to know someone Chat for a while in the app before sharing personal details or meeting in person. There's no rush — building trust is part of the journey.

  2. Keep first conversations in the app Use Fields of Peers messaging for as long as possible. Avoid moving to WhatsApp, email, or other platforms too quickly — our app has built-in safety tools like reporting and blocking.

  3. Never send money or share financial information Anyone asking for money (for travel, medical costs, gifts, etc.) is a red flag. Real people who want to connect don't ask for money early on.

  4. Verify identities before meeting Ask for a quick video call or more recent photos. If someone refuses or gives excuses, trust your instincts and stay safe.

  5. Always meet in public for the first few dates Choose a busy, well-lit place like a café, park, or restaurant during daylight or early evening. Tell a friend where you're going and when you'll check in.

  6. Arrange your own transport Don't rely on your date for rides. Use your own car, public transport, or a taxi/Uber so you can leave anytime.

  7. Share your plans with someone you trust Tell a friend or family member the time, place, and name of your date. Share your live location via your phone if it feels right.

  8. Trust your instincts If anything feels off, uncomfortable, or too good to be true — it's okay to cancel, block, or report. Your safety comes first.

  9. Use our safety features Report any suspicious behavior, harassment, or fake profiles directly in the app. We review reports quickly and take action (including removing accounts).

  10. Have an exit plan Bring your phone (charged), tell someone when to expect a check-in message, and have a phrase ready (e.g., text a friend “Call me in 10 min” as a signal to leave).

Final note We hope every connection on Fields of Peers leads to something beautiful and safe. If you ever feel unsafe or need support, contact us at support@fieldsofpeers.com or use the in-app report button. You're never alone here.